Maya Angelou said, "People will show you who they are. BELIEVE them!" That is absolutely true. Many times we see how people are; And if we don't recognize it, we feel it. Our intuition tells us otherwise. But we make a conscious decision to ignore that which is obvious. Why? Because they possess something that we like. Whether we are attracted to them physically, mentally or their charismatic personality. Whatever it is, we like it enough to determine that they are worth the risk. They are worth ignoring the warnings...the signs.
So when the ish hits the fan and the room starts to stink, don't play the blame game . You are not allowed to point fingers because YOU chose to move forward. YOU made the decision to take the risk. After all, life is about risks right? So LIVE.....LOVE.....and learn from the mistakes you make. But remember one thing, ACCOUNTABILITY equals GROWTH. So make better decisions. Do your research and become informed....well educated on a person before you step in friendship....relationship...commitment's direction. Some people are better kept at a distance. Do your research so you will know. Be wise. :)